Let’s be honest: life’s gotten a bit… noisy. Between emails, endless to-do lists, and trying to remember if it’s trash day or recycling day, it’s no wonder we feel like hamsters on a wheel. We’re sprinting but not necessarily going anywhere.

But here’s the thing: the wheel doesn’t stop unless you do. So, let’s talk about hitting pause, stepping off, and reconnecting with what truly matters. Spoiler: it’s not your inbox or that new streaming show everyone’s talking about.

Take a second and ask yourself: Who am I outside of my responsibilities, my job title, and my Wi-Fi connection? It sounds deep, but it’s really about rediscovering what makes you tick. What lights you up? When was the last time you did something just because it made you happy?

Maybe it’s cooking, dancing like nobody’s watching (even if they are), or painting even though your best work looks like Picasso’s toddler phase. The point isn’t perfection; it’s joy. Reconnecting with these moments of bliss is step one to finding your way back to yourself.

Look around—who’s in your circle? Are they lifting you up or dragging you down? Life’s too short to spend time with people who drain your energy. (Yes, faceless keyboard warrior, I’m looking at you.)

Surround yourself with those who make your soul feel like it’s at an all-you-can-eat buffet of laughter, love, and support. These are your people—the ones who remind you of what matters when you forget.

This one’s a toughie, but hear me out: turn off your phone. No, seriously. The world won’t implode if you’re unreachable for an hour.

Go for a walk without headphones. Sit in the park and people-watch. (Bonus points if you guess their life stories.) Journal your thoughts. Meditate. Or just stare at the ceiling and let your mind wander. When you’re not constantly consuming, you create space to connect with yourself and your surroundings.

Here’s a wild concept: you don’t have to do everything. Not every party, project, or PTA meeting needs your RSVP. Saying “no” isn’t selfish; it’s strategic.

Every time you say “yes” to something that doesn’t align with your values, you’re saying “no” to something that does. Protect your time and energy like it’s the last slice of pizza—it’s precious.

At the core of reconnecting with what matters is figuring out your “why.” Why do you do what you do? What’s the point? It’s easy to get stuck in the day-to-day grind and forget the big picture.

Take some time to reflect on what gives your life meaning. Is it your family? Your creative passions? Making a difference in the world? Whatever it is, let it guide your decisions. It’s your internal compass in a world full of distractions.

Life’s a mess—you’re a mess—we’re all a mess. And that’s okay! Laugh at the chaos. Celebrate the little wins, like remembering to water your plants or finally folding that mountain of laundry. Humor keeps things light and reminds us not to take it all too seriously.

Reconnecting with what matters isn’t a one-time thing; it’s an ongoing practice. Some days you’ll nail it, and other days you’ll eat cereal for dinner and scroll Instagram for hours. (We’ve all been there.) The point is to keep coming back to what’s important.

So, take a deep breath, step off the hamster wheel, and start living a life that feels like yours!

And that’s exactly what I’ll be doing. I’m stepping off the hamster wheel to connect with family over the holidays. I’ll be back in the new year with fresh ideas and strategies to help us work toward our successes. I’ll also be spending time in the new year studying for a new license so I can help my clients even more!

Here’s to the holidays—a time for joy, fresh starts, chasing bigger dreams, and embracing the renewed hope that comes with new beginnings!!