Do you ever feel like you’re just going through the motions?

It’s not only unfulfilling but it can be exhausting. It can leave you feeling dissatisfied and even disgruntled until you find yourself wondering why you’re doing what you’re doing.

A few years ago I had a great career. I was making comfortable money and had fun with my co-workers. But at the end of the day, it was just a paycheck.

I always felt like there was something missing and then I realized that even though I was good at what I did, there was no fulfillment for me in what I did for a living.

When covid hit, a lot of people in my industry were laid off and it forced me to reevaluate what I was doing with my life. After working with a career coach to help me figure out what I wanted to do when I grew up I found that I was happiest when I was helping other people succeed. And that’s when I found my why and became a coach.

Understanding your personal motivations—your “why”—is so crucial. Your “why” is your deep-seated reason that drives your actions, decisions, and overall life direction. It’s the motivation behind WHAT you do and HOW you do it.

At its most basic, knowing your why gives you a sense of purpose. It acts like a compass, guiding you through life’s challenges and helping you stay focused on what matters. When you have a clear why, it becomes easier to make decisions that align with your long-term goals, rather than being swayed by external pressures or fleeting trends.

People often chase external markers of success, like money, status, or approval, only to find that these don’t bring lasting happiness. True fulfillment comes from living a life aligned with your values and passions. When you are connected to your why, your actions are more likely to be in harmony with who you are at your core. This alignment leads to a deeper sense of satisfaction and joy.

Life is filled with setbacks and obstacles, but a strong sense of purpose can help you navigate these difficulties. It gives you the strength to persevere, as you are not just working towards short-term achievements but are driven by a deeper, more meaningful cause. Its easy to feel discouraged and want to give up. But, having a strong why will give you the motivation that keeps you going.

In the professional realm, having a clear why can enhance productivity and job satisfaction. Employees who understand how their work contributes to a larger purpose are often more engaged and motivated. This not only leads to higher performance but also to a more cohesive and inspired workplace culture.

Finding your why also plays an important role in building authentic relationships. When you are clear about your motivations and goals, you attract like-minded individuals who share similar values. This alignment creates deeper, more meaningful connections, both personally and professionally.

To discover your why, introspection is key. Reflect on your passions, strengths, and the experiences that have shaped you. Consider what activities make you lose track of time and what issues you feel passionately about. Sometimes, it helps to look at pivotal moments in your life and identify common themes that resonate deeply with you.

Finding your why allows you to make a meaningful impact on the world. Whether through your career, relationships, or community involvement, a clear sense of purpose drives you to contribute positively to society. It encourages you to think beyond personal gain and consider how your actions affect others. This broader perspective not only enhances your legacy but also inspires those around you to seek and fulfill their own purpose.

It is a transformative process that requires introspection and self-awareness. It involves digging deep to uncover what truly matters to you and aligning your actions with that purpose. While it may take time and effort, the rewards are profound. Clarity, motivation, fulfillment, and impact are just a few of the benefits that come from knowing your why. Ultimately, it is the foundation of a meaningful and purpose-driven life.